Wisdom on Her Tongue: Tips for Getting Back Your Weekends & Holidays & Learning to Communicate Effectively in Marriage is a candid, biblically grounded manual for Christian wives who desire to grow in spiritual maturity and relational wisdom. Framed by the call of Proverbs 31 and Titus 2, the book argues that a woman’s ability to communicate with grace, respect, and restraint is one of the bellwethers of a successful Christian marriage. Does she often reach for the tools of manipulation, sarcasm, and emotional impulsivity? Or does she instead favor meekness, patience, clarity, and Christian charity? The answer will likely reveal whether a woman is building up her household—or tearing it down.

The book is structured as a series of short, pointed chapters covering topics like anger, respect, honor, and self-control, often encouraging women toward the hard, good work of cultivating a gentle and quiet spirit. Sauvé urges readers to break generational cycles of bitterness and drama by pursuing habits that bring peace into the home. The tone of the book is both kind and direct, offering correction with warmth and Christian hope. With a forward and closing exhortation from her husband, Pastor Brian Sauvé, the book serves as both a rebuke and a rallying cry for women seeking to become crowns to their husbands and builders of flourishing Christian households.